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🛑 Sarcasm, Roasts & Shutting Down Creeps in Chinese

Defend your boundaries with wit and firmness. Shutting down unwanted advances, dismissing pushy people, spotting sleaze, sarcastic roasts.

“Beijing. A bar in Sanlitun. Someone will stare, someone will push. You will say no, calmly, and mean it. I will show you how.” — Malèna, your host for this unit

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Key Chinese words and phrases

ChineseMeaning
不用了bú yòng leno need, thanks
兴趣xìngqùinterest
没兴趣méi xìngqùnot interested
对象duìxiàngpartner, significant other
我有对象了wǒ yǒu duìxiàng leI'm seeing someone
我在等朋友wǒ zài děng péngyouI'm waiting for a friend
方便fāngbiànconvenient
不方便bù fāngbiànit's not a good time
别碰我bié pèng wǒdon't touch me
离我远点lí wǒ yuǎn diǎnback off, keep your distance
够了gòu leenough!
走开zǒukāigo away
保安bǎo’ānsecurity guard
骚扰sāorǎoto harass
是不是shì bu shìis it or not (yes/no question)
油腻yóunìsleazy, smarmy (lit. greasy)
猥琐wěisuǒcreepy, lecherous
套路tàolùscripted moves, tricks
咸猪手xián zhū shǒugroper, wandering hands
骗piànto fool, deceive
手不老实shǒu bù lǎoshihands keep wandering (groping)
你想多了nǐ xiǎng duō leyou're overthinking it; don't flatter yourself
以为yǐwéito think (wrongly)
你以为你是谁nǐ yǐwéi nǐ shì shéiwho do you think you are?
呵呵hēheyeah, sure (cold fake laugh)
做梦zuòmèngto dream
做梦吧zuò mèng bain your dreams
醒醒吧xǐngxing bawake up, get real
普信男pǔxìn nánmediocre but overconfident guy (slang)
关你什么事guān nǐ shénme shìnone of your business
理由lǐyóureason

Example sentences

不好意思,我没兴趣。
Sorry, I'm not interested.
我想一个人待一会儿。
I'd like to be alone for a while.
别碰我。
Don't touch me.
他是不是在骚扰你?
Is he harassing you?
别被他的套路骗了。
Don't fall for his tricks.
他的手不老实。
his hands keep wandering
你以为你是谁啊?
Who do you think you are?
拒绝不需要理由。
Saying no doesn't need a reason.

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