AdultLingoCurso de chino › Sección 4 › Unidad 24
🛑 Sarcasmo, zascas y frenar a los pesados en chino
Defiende tus límites con ingenio y firmeza.
🌐 Por ahora, el contenido del curso (significados, notas y explicaciones) está en inglés, tanto en estas páginas como en la app; la interfaz está en español.
“Beijing. A bar in Sanlitun. Someone will stare, someone will push. You will say no, calmly, and mean it. I will show you how.” — Malèna, tu anfitrión en esta unidad
Practica esta unidad gratis ➔Palabras y frases clave en chino
| Chino | Significado |
|---|---|
| 不用了bú yòng le | no need, thanks |
| 兴趣xìngqù | interest |
| 没兴趣méi xìngqù | not interested |
| 对象duìxiàng | partner, significant other |
| 我有对象了wǒ yǒu duìxiàng le | I'm seeing someone |
| 我在等朋友wǒ zài děng péngyou | I'm waiting for a friend |
| 方便fāngbiàn | convenient |
| 不方便bù fāngbiàn | it's not a good time |
| 别碰我bié pèng wǒ | don't touch me |
| 离我远点lí wǒ yuǎn diǎn | back off, keep your distance |
| 够了gòu le | enough! |
| 走开zǒukāi | go away |
| 保安bǎo’ān | security guard |
| 骚扰sāorǎo | to harass |
| 是不是shì bu shì | is it or not (yes/no question) |
| 油腻yóunì | sleazy, smarmy (lit. greasy) |
| 猥琐wěisuǒ | creepy, lecherous |
| 套路tàolù | scripted moves, tricks |
| 咸猪手xián zhū shǒu | groper, wandering hands |
| 骗piàn | to fool, deceive |
| 手不老实shǒu bù lǎoshi | hands keep wandering (groping) |
| 你想多了nǐ xiǎng duō le | you're overthinking it; don't flatter yourself |
| 以为yǐwéi | to think (wrongly) |
| 你以为你是谁nǐ yǐwéi nǐ shì shéi | who do you think you are? |
| 呵呵hēhe | yeah, sure (cold fake laugh) |
| 做梦zuòmèng | to dream |
| 做梦吧zuò mèng ba | in your dreams |
| 醒醒吧xǐngxing ba | wake up, get real |
| 普信男pǔxìn nán | mediocre but overconfident guy (slang) |
| 关你什么事guān nǐ shénme shì | none of your business |
| 理由lǐyóu | reason |
| 分享fēnxiǎng | to share |
| 行程xíngchéng | trip, itinerary (a ride-hailing route) |
| 报警bàojǐng | to call the police |
| 老地方lǎo dìfang | the usual place |
Frases de ejemplo
Sorry, I'm not interested.
I'd like to be alone for a while.
Don't touch me.
Is he harassing you?
Don't fall for his tricks.
his hands keep wandering
Who do you think you are?
Saying no doesn't need a reason.
Una conversación de esta unidad
Saturday night, a cocktail bar in Sanlitun. Anya arrives twenty minutes late, a little flustered.
Anya: 不好意思，我来晚了。刚才在地铁上，有个男的一直跟我说话。Sorry I'm late. Just now on the subway, some guy kept talking to me.
Malèna: 你还好吗？他碰你了吗？Are you OK? Did he touch you?
Anya: 没有。我说了不用了，就换了一节车厢。No. I said "no thanks" and moved to another carriage.
Malèna: 做得好。不用解释，也不用笑。Well done. No need to explain, and no need to smile.
Anya: 可是他还要我的微信……我该怎么说？But he still asked for my WeChat… what should I have said?
Anya: 没兴趣。好，我记住了！Not interested. OK, I've got it!
Notas culturales
A Sanlitun bar. A man offers to buy Malèna a drink. She says 不用了. He smiles: "别客气！" and waves the bartender over anyway. Why might he think her first no was only politeness?
In China a first refusal is often polite modesty, so make a real no unmistakable: repeat it, flat, with 真的.
Mainland China: declining an offer once or twice out of modesty (客气) is good manners, and hosts are expected to insist, so some men treat a first no as a formality. 不用了 is a real no; to make it impossible to misread, say it again without a smile: 真的不用了. You never owe anyone a drink.
Dilo como un local: 真的不用了，谢谢。 — Really, no thank you.
Catherine, back from a work trip to Shenzhen, tells Malèna about the pink signs on the metro platform marking one carriage. What are those carriages?
Women-priority carriages: at rush hour women are asked to use them, but men are not fined for boarding.
Mainland China: some metros, such as Guangzhou and Shenzhen, have women-priority carriages (女性优先车厢), mostly at rush hour. They are a request, not a rule: nobody is fined. Not every city has them. Wherever you are, groping on a crowded train is harassment: say it out loud, move away, and tell staff or call the police.
Dilo como un local: 有人骚扰我！ — Someone is harassing me!
1 a.m. outside the bar. Malèna has booked a Didi home. Anya grabs her arm: "分享行程给我！" What is Anya asking her to do?
Use the app's share-trip feature, so Anya can follow the car's route live until she's home.
Mainland China: Didi, the main ride-hailing app, has a safety centre with share-trip (行程分享), which sends a friend the car's live route, and an emergency-help button that can contact the police. Sharing your trip is a normal, caring thing friends ask for after a night out, like 到家了给我发个消息.
Dilo como un local: 分享行程给我，到家了给我发个消息。 — Share your trip with me, and message me when you get home.
Joe asks Malèna which number to call if a night out ever goes really wrong in Beijing. Which number reaches the police in mainland China?
110
Mainland China: 110 is the police, 120 an ambulance, 119 the fire service. Calls are free, even from a phone with no credit. "To call the police" is 报警, and you can say it to bar staff too: they will call for you.
Dilo como un local: 我要报警！ — I want to call the police!
Catherine scrolls through the WeChat Moments of a man who has been messaging Anya. Five different women in five weeks of photos. She snorts: "海王。" What does she mean by 海王, "sea king"?
A player who keeps a whole "fish pond" of love interests on the go at once.
Mainland Chinese internet slang: a 海王 juggles many romantic prospects, his 鱼塘 ("fish pond"), and calls none of them his partner. 渣男 is the broader insult for a man who cheats or plays with feelings. Both are mocking slang, not profanity, and are said of women too (渣女).
Dilo como un local: 他是个渣男，还是个海王。 — He's a jerk, and a player too.
Apréndelo bien
En la app, Malèna te guía por esta unidad en lecciones cortas: opción múltiple, emparejar y construir frases con fichas, con audio, además de escenas de escucha, chats que reaccionan a tus respuestas, ejercicios de «Lee el ambiente», tarjetas culturales y un episodio de drama. Las palabras que aprendes vuelven en el repaso justo antes de que las olvides. Es gratis y no necesitas cuenta: tu progreso se queda en tu navegador.
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