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Curso de chino › Sección 1 › Unidad 1

😍 Ligar y primeras impresiones en chino

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🌐 Por ahora, el contenido del curso (significados, notas y explicaciones) está en inglés, tanto en estas páginas como en la app; la interfaz está en español.

“Hey, I'm Jack. Cheap cabin, big ocean, and tomorrow we dock in Shanghai. Grab a deck chair and let's learn to say hi like you mean it.” — Jack, tu anfitrión en esta unidad

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Palabras y frases clave en chino

ChinoSignificado
这里zhèlǐhere
这里有人吗?zhèlǐ yǒu rén mais this seat taken?
你好nǐ hǎohello
叫jiàoto be called (name)
我叫…wǒ jiàomy name is…
名字míngziname
一个人yí ge rénalone, by yourself
朋友péngyoufriend
认识rènshito get to know, to meet
什么shénmewhat
你叫什么名字?nǐ jiào shénme míngziwhat's your name?
很高兴认识你hěn gāoxìng rènshi nǐnice to meet you
眼睛yǎnjingeyes
漂亮piàoliangbeautiful, pretty
笑容xiàoróngsmile
头发tóufahair
可爱kě'àicute
好看hǎokàngood-looking
你笑起来很好看nǐ xiào qǐlái hěn hǎokànyou look great when you smile
真zhēnreally, truly
迷人míréncharming, captivating
一见钟情yí jiàn zhōng qínglove at first sight
喜欢上xǐhuan shàngto fall for, start liking (someone)
好像hǎoxiàngit seems, apparently
魅力mèilìcharm, charisma
有魅力yǒu mèilìcharming, charismatic
心动xīndòngheart skips a beat
好感hǎogǎna liking, a soft spot
有感觉yǒu gǎnjuéto feel something (for someone)
害羞hàixiūshy
心跳xīntiàoheartbeat; heart beats
好快hǎo kuàiso fast
可以kěyǐcan, may
手机号shǒujī hàomobile number
明天míngtiāntomorrow
一起yìqǐtogether
…,好吗?hǎo ma…, okay? (soft invitation)
短信duǎnxìntext message
手机shǒujīmobile phone
约会yuēhuìa date
明天见míngtiān jiànsee you tomorrow
慢慢来mànmàn láitake it slow, no rush
不急bù jíno rush
今晚jīnwǎntonight
给gěito give; to, for (someone)
发短信fā duǎnxìnto send a text
您nínyou (polite, respectful)
阿姨āyíauntie; polite address for an older woman
请问qǐngwènexcuse me, may I ask (polite)
几点jǐ diǎnwhat time
船chuánship, boat
拍照pāizhàoto take a photo
晚安wǎn'āngood night
哪里哪里nǎlǐ nǎlǐoh, not at all (modest reply to a compliment)
结婚jiéhūnto get married
早上好zǎoshang hǎogood morning

Frases de ejemplo

你好,我叫杰克。
Hi, my name is Jack.
很高兴认识你。
Nice to meet you.
你笑起来很好看。
You look great when you smile.
你的笑容很迷人。
Your smile is charming
我好像喜欢上你了。
I think I'm falling for you.
我心跳好快。
My heart is racing.
可以给我你的手机号吗?
Can I get your phone number?
我今晚给你发短信。
I'll text you tonight.

Una conversación de esta unidad

The ship has docked in Shanghai. Jack finds Rose at breakfast on deck.

Jack: 早上好,罗丝!今天跟我一起去豫园,好吗?Good morning, Rose! Come to Yu Garden with me today, okay?

Rose: 好啊!不过上午不行,我要先给家里打个电话。Sure! But not this morning: I have to call home first.

Jack: 没关系,不急。那下午呢?No problem, no rush. How about the afternoon?

Jack: 两点,在码头见?Two o'clock, at the dock?

Rose: 码头人太多了。在外滩见吧,海关大楼下面。There are too many people at the dock. Let's meet on the Bund, under the Customs House.

Notas culturales

On the quay in Shanghai, Rose introduces Jack to Lin Xiao, a Shanghai photographer from the ship. How does Lin Xiao most likely greet Jack?

With a smile and a nod, or a light handshake.

In mainland China, people meeting for the first time don't kiss cheeks or hug. A smile, a nod and 你好 are enough, and a light handshake is common, especially in business. Hugs are for close friends, and a deep bow is more Japanese than Chinese.

Dilo como un local: 早上好,很高兴认识你! — Good morning, nice to meet you!

In a Yu Garden tea shop, Jack says 你好 and orders in Chinese. The owner beams: "你的中文真好!" What's the most natural way for Jack to answer?

Brush it off modestly: "Oh, not at all, I still have a long way to go."

In China a compliment is traditionally deflected, not accepted: 哪里哪里 (literally "where? where?") means "oh, not at all". It isn't false modesty but good manners. Younger people in the big cities also just say 谢谢 now, which is fine too; a flat "yes, I know" is what sounds boastful.

Dilo como un local: 哪里哪里,还差得远呢! — Oh, not at all, I still have a long way to go!

On a bench on the Bund, an older Shanghai gentleman starts chatting with Jack. Within two minutes he asks how old he is, what he does and whether he's married. How should Jack take these questions?

As friendly small talk: he's showing interest, so answer lightly or smile and deflect.

In mainland China, especially from older people, questions about age, job, salary and marriage are ordinary small talk, a way of placing you and showing interest. Nobody minds a vague answer or a laughing 还没呢 (not yet!). You don't have to share more than you want.

Dilo como un local: 我二十五岁,还没结婚呢。 — I'm twenty-five, and not married yet.

In the Yu Garden bazaar a young stall-keeper waves a silk fan at Jack and Rose: "帅哥!美女!来看看!" What's going on?

Nothing personal: 帅哥 and 美女 are everyday ways to call out to young people.

In mainland China, 帅哥 (handsome) and 美女 (beautiful) became everyday address for young strangers in the 2000s: vendors, waiters and customers use them like "hey, you". It's friendly, not a pickup line, and you can use them back. They took over from older terms like 小姐 that had picked up unwanted meanings.

Dilo como un local: 帅哥,这个扇子真漂亮! — Hey there (lit. handsome), this fan is really pretty!

Jack has sketched the Shanghai auntie who took their photo, and wants to give her the drawing. How should he hand it over?

With both hands, facing her, with a small smile.

In China, giving or receiving something that matters (a gift, a business card, a drawing) with both hands shows respect, especially to someone older. When you receive something, take it with both hands and look at it before putting it away. There's no rule about the left hand, as there is in some other cultures.

Dilo como un local: 阿姨,这个给您。 — Auntie, this is for you.

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En la app, Jack te guía por esta unidad en lecciones cortas: opción múltiple, emparejar y construir frases con fichas, con audio, además de escenas de escucha, chats que reaccionan a tus respuestas, ejercicios de «Lee el ambiente», tarjetas culturales y un episodio de drama. Las palabras que aprendes vuelven en el repaso justo antes de que las olvides. Es gratis y no necesitas cuenta: tu progreso se queda en tu navegador.

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