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🛑 西班牙语:讽刺、毒舌与怼走骚扰者

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“Malèna. Some attention is welcome. Some is not. Tonight in Madrid you learn to say no once, and mean it.” — Malèna,本单元的主持人

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西班牙语核心单词和短语

西班牙语词义
no me interesaI'm not interested
estar bien soloto be fine on your own
ahora nonot now
pasarto pass; paso = I'll pass (Spain slang)
decir que noto say no
pesadotiresome, pushy (Spain)
insistirto insist, keep pushing
agobiarto crowd, smother
pirarseto get lost, clear off (slang, Spain)
largarseto clear off (blunt)
el babosocreep, lech (lit. drooler)
no parar de…to not stop (doing something)
el salidohorndog; horny (crude)
el pulpogroper (slang, Spain; lit. octopus)
el plastapest, bore who won't leave (Spain)
cutretacky, cheap (Spain)
dar ascoto gross out, disgust
¡qué original!how original! (often sarcastic)
ni en tus sueñosin your dreams, not a chance
ya, claroyeah, right (sarcastic)
me partoI'm dying of laughter (often sarcastic, Spain)
¡anda ya!oh, come off it! (Spain)
¡qué gracioso!very funny (often sarcastic)
preguntarto ask
¿y a ti quién te ha preguntado?who asked you?
me está molestandohe's / she's bothering me
saberto know; to know how to

例句

Estoy con mis amigas.
I'm with my friends.
He dicho que no.
I said no.
Déjame en paz, por favor.
Leave me alone, please.
Tío, ha dicho que no.
Mate, she said no.
No para de mirarme.
He won't stop staring at me.
Ese tío me da asco.
That guy grosses me out
Ni en tus sueños.
In your dreams.
Tú sí sabes preguntar.
You do know how to ask.

本单元的一段对话

Saturday afternoon, a terrace on the Plaza de Santa Ana. Catherine sits down next to Malèna and orders a vermut.

Catherine: Malèna, ¿sabes qué me ha dicho un tío en el metro?Malèna, do you know what a guy said to me on the metro?

Malèna: A ver… ¿«Estudias o trabajas»?Let me guess… "Do you study or work?"

Catherine: ¡Exacto! ¡Qué original!Exactly! How original!

Catherine: Y luego: «¿Me das tu número?»And then: "Can I have your number?"

Catherine: Le he dicho: «Ni en tus sueños.»I told him: "In your dreams."

Malèna: ¿Y él?And him?

Catherine: «¡Qué borde!» Y se ha bajado en Sol."How rude!" And he got off at Sol.

Malèna: Ya, claro. El borde es él.Yeah, right. He's the rude one.

文化笔记

A bar in Lavapiés, Madrid. A man Malèna has never met keeps calling her "guapa" and edging closer. Her answer: «Perdone, no me interesa.» Why does she suddenly call him usted?

To put distance between them: usted for someone who's getting too familiar is a polite wall.

In Spain, people of similar age use tú with each other almost everywhere, strangers in a bar included. That's exactly why switching to usted works: it says "we are not friends" without a single rude word. It's a classic way to cool down someone who's getting overfamiliar.

像本地人一样说: Perdone, no me interesa. — Excuse me, I'm not interested.

A late-night bar in Madrid. A man keeps putting his hand on Anya's back, even after she has moved away twice. What's the most effective thing she can do?

Tell the bar staff: they are expected to step in, and they can make him leave.

Telling the staff is normal and expected in Spain, and they can throw out someone who is bothering other customers. That's what the sign you see in so many bars, «Reservado el derecho de admisión» (right of admission reserved), is for. If you ever feel in danger, call 112, the emergency number.

像本地人一样说: Perdona, ese señor me está molestando. — Excuse me, that man is bothering me.

A big summer fiesta in Spain: music, crowds, food stalls. Malèna spots a purple tent with a sign that says «Punto Violeta». What is it?

A place where anyone who is harassed or attacked can get help and information.

Puntos violeta (purple points) are help points at fiestas, festivals and other big events across Spain, usually run by the town hall or the organisers. Anyone who is harassed or assaulted, or sees it happen, can go there for help and information. Purple is the colour of the feminist movement in Spain.

像本地人一样说: Un tío no me deja en paz. — A guy won't leave me alone.

One in the morning. Malèna's friends walk her to a taxi. As the door closes, they all say the same thing. What are they asking her to do?

Send them a message when she gets home.

«Avísame cuando llegues» (let me know when you get home) is a ritual among friends in Spain, and it's meant seriously. The expected reply is a quick «Ya estoy en casa» (I'm home). Forget to send it, and expect your phone to ring.

像本地人一样说: Avísame cuando llegues. — Let me know when you get home.

Malèna's friend Lucía, in Madrid, says her ex won't stop messaging her and keeps turning up at her work. She wants to talk to someone, in confidence. Which number can she call in Spain?

016: free, 24 hours a day, in many languages, and it doesn't show up on the phone bill.

016 is Spain's helpline for all forms of violence against women, harassment and stalking by an ex included. It's free, open 24 hours a day, works in many languages and doesn't appear on the phone bill (it's still wise to delete it from the call log). Friends and family can call it too, and it can also be reached by WhatsApp. In an emergency, call 112.

像本地人一样说: ¿Estás bien? Aquí me tienes. — Are you okay? I'm here for you.

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